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**Romantic Multilingualism in Paris: An American’s Journey of Love and Language**

(Lucia Marquez-Uppman • The Student Life)

When studying abroad, it’s almost inevitable to ponder on language. The challenges of navigating through it, like the awkward encounters at a French grocery store, can make one feel like melting into a puddle of mush.

For many Americans, language barriers while studying abroad are seen as a temporary inconvenience. They might express annoyance at the lack of English speakers but reassure themselves that they’ll soon be back in familiar territory.

However, the eagerness to return to the comfort of home, like Huntington Beach, may not always be the best mindset to have. Dismissive attitudes towards learning a new language and fully immersing oneself in a different culture can come off as disrespectful and shallow.

The reluctance of many Americans to embrace a new language stems from their lack of experience as foreigners. Accustomed to being at the top of the food chain, they may find it challenging to step into the shoes of a newcomer.

Contrastingly, for individuals with a background in immigration or growing up outside the United States, grappling with a new language is nothing out of the ordinary. The struggles of expressing oneself in a foreign language are part and parcel of their everyday lives.

As for myself, this semester has been a test of my language acquisition abilities. Despite excelling in picking up English swiftly and adapting to American culture, mastering French has proven to be a different ball game.

I catch myself retreating to the familiarity of English within the confines of my bedroom, consuming English media, and engaging in English-centric activities. The comfort of my native language contrasts sharply with the challenges of conversing with my host family in French.

The fear of not being fluent in a new language has been a significant barrier for me. However, I’ve come to realize that making mistakes and practicing are essential steps in the learning process.

Interactions with individuals who speak English as a second language have been enlightening. Engaging in discussions across language barriers underscores the shared effort and camaraderie required for effective communication.

Language serves as a conduit for human connection, allowing individuals to externalize their thoughts and emotions to forge meaningful relationships. Celine Song’s film “Past Lives” beautifully illustrates how language can shape and deepen human connections, highlighting the complexities of identity and communication.

Ultimately, the willingness to learn and speak another’s language is a profound expression of empathy and love. By making an effort to understand others through their native language, we bridge cultural divides and nurture genuine connections.

Language transcends mere words; it is the gateway to shared experiences and mutual understanding. Embracing linguistic diversity enriches our lives and fosters a sense of interconnectedness with the world around us.

Tania Azhang PZ ’25 is a study abroad columnist currently in France.